How do you build your dreams?

How do you build your dreams?
Or more precisely...
How do you build your vision?
You build your vision by building your own vision YOURSELF; not by buying into dreams that others are trying to sell you. Building your own vision means you have to personally figure out all the things you need to personally do in order to get there. You must have the big picture and also a blueprint that lays out all the steps that will get you there.
You then have to organise those steps yourself. Tweak them, rearrange them and go through enough trial and errors. You have to go thru that messy process which will eventually become your system.
Nobody will be able to build you that system. If they do, they will charge you a fortune for it. It’s ok if it works for you but you will find that, in most cases, it will NOT work for you.
The world is full of dream sellers. System sellers. Vision promoters. Hope marketers.
You cannot exchange your money for hopes - no matter how promising they look.
You cannot buy dreams (ie. those one-size-fits-all types that others built to sell you) - no matter realistic they sound.
You cannot purchase a vision - no matter how much you pay for it.
You have to build them all yourself. Only then can you break them down into smaller parts and then pay someone do those parts for you.
Period.
How do you choose a genuine service or solution provider?
You choose someone who does not sell you big dreams, big visions, super powerful, time proven and result-tested systems or ultimate blueprints.
You choose someone who will tell you what you have exactly asked for, give you their quote right from the outset and let you decide on your own if you want to work with them at all.
You choose someone who will not inflate your original dream before you have even taken your first step!
How do you choose your right solution provider? Someone who is good that solving your problem or someone who is great at selling you big dreams?
I mean, how else are they going to justify their quotes right after they’ve sold you their BIG dreams, right?

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