Your lack of self-belief is very costly!

Our lack of self-belief costs us the most (both in terms of time and money) throughout our lifetimes. Historically, people pay ridiculous amounts of money just so they 'get' to do things they were not confident enough to do straight away by themselves.  

However, once you have fixed your mindset and eventually your self-belief, you will be able to cut back your spending on so many unnecessary things that are designed to boost your self-confidence. Clothes that costs for than what they're intrinsically worth, fancy-sounding university degrees from prestigious sounding Ivy Leagues universities, life coaches who will tell you stuff that makes you feel good (simply because they see you as their cash cows) without actually making you see the truth for what it actually is, business coaches who will 10X your sales. The list just goes on and on.

I say whatever you want to do, just do it - even if you lack self-belief. Instead of choosing the easy way out by buying yourself some self-belief and self-confidence, try the not-so-easy but right way of acquiring the tangible skills that will gradually but surely elevate your self-belief and self- confidence one level at a time.

Otherwise, if you linger around (on the social media) a little longer, you will be tempted to attend yet another workshop, buy yet another book, go to yet another meditation retreat, sign up for yet another ultimate blueprint, download yet another FREE report or join yet another masterclass. Do you get the picture?

Nobody will help you on social media. Nobody wil make you an instant authority. Nobody will help you get to 'the next level' (whatever that means). Nobody will help you live your dreams. Nobody will teach you to be rich. 
    
At some point, you must somehow or rather wake up to the fact that the only person who can help you is you and your real efforts - not even your own money! Get it!

Capitalism is always about the capital you possess. But capital is not always about money. Capital is about being resourceful within ourselves. That is something money cannot buy. 

Never was yesterday. Never is today. Never will be tomorrow. Keep your money to yourself. Instead, show me your actions!







 

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